It’s Baby Time!!!
Well, this morning’s show was my last show…for the time being anyway. The baby is due in 15 days which means it’s time for me to get some sleep and get ready for my life to change forever!! I’ve heard babies do that?
This certainly is not goodbye- but rather thank you! I want to thank you for listening to my show, to me and my guests, each and every week for the last year. It has been a pleasure producing and hosting this radio talk show. I have met so many really great people along the way and I have been grateful to have been able to introduce to you some of the most wonderful experts and guests each week. I especially want to thank my producer- Nick Wynja- for his energy and enthusiasm each week. Nick has been with me from day one and I could not have done it without his passion and excitement. Nick- you made this show GREAT! Good luck in Kelowna BC- they are lucky to have you and I look forward to crossing paths again in our careers!
I would like to take minute to thank the sponsors that have been involved in the show. I can’t help but feel so incredibly fortunate to have had the privilege to work with all of you over this past year. Not only have you all become great friends of mine, but you provided very valuable, important information to our listeners in an entertaining, engaging manner every week. THANK YOU does not feel like enough. You are all wonderful individuals and I am fortunate to have been so lucky to have such great people surrounding me throughout this incredible process! Thank you for believing in me and this product.
The staff at Corus Radio has also been absolutely stellar and I am so happy to have had the opportunity to work with all of them. Thank you Nathan Smith- News Director for AM980 and Dave Farough – Corus London Station Manager- for their support and for providing me with the medium for this show on AM980. It has been a wonderful journey for me and I hope to work for you both again in the future. Thank you Zoltan Haraszthy, Dave Longfield Dan Dasilva for selling the show and keeping it going from a financial stand point. I have learned so much from you guys! Thank you EVERYONE at Corus Radio London for your support and for helping me along the way whether that is from a sales perspective, programming, production or promotions. Thank you so much!!! This year has been an amazing journey for me and I thank you for this opportunity to build a radio show from the ground up!!
It’s baby time for me!!!! I’m taking some time to enjoy my new baby boy with my husband. Of course I could not have done this show without him- I love you Zoltan and I am so looking forward to having this time with you and our baby!!!! Thank you for believing in me being there to remind me that everything is always going to be okay!
I have not exactly figured out how much time I’ll be taking yet- but as much as I need and want. I promise to keep in touch and keep you posted as to what’s next for me. In the meantime- I will continue to blog on www.cherylweedmark.com and I am always an e-mail, tweet or Facebook message away!
Thank you everyone!!!! Muuuuwaaaahhhh!!!
Here are a few photos that my husband and I got taken a few weeks ago!! Thank you to Julie at Dream Catcher- who did an amazing job with them. They turned out perfectly and I have them in the baby’s room already.
Cweed
Last Blog Before Baby’s Arrival- OH MY!
By: Cheryl Weedmark
One of my greatest fears about becoming a Mom- is that I’m becoming a Mom! I know that sounds really crazy- but I’m worried that my life is going to turn into conversations about poopy diapers and tender breasts. I’m scared that the only interaction with the adult society as I know it will be in baby groups. I’m also worried that I will compare myself to other Moms asking questions like “does your baby do this?” From what I’ve been reading- these are known as ‘survival instincts’. The comparison game is one new mom’s know well. It’s pretty impossible not to notice when, say, a friend’s 5-week-old is smiling and yours isn’t. Sure- it’s normal- but it’s something I want to avoid.
I think it can also prevent us from fully appreciating what our kids are accomplishing.
Here are some common comparison traps — and how to sidestep them which I found online at www.babycentre.com
Milestone and development comparisons
Babies vary widely when it comes to hitting milestones like sitting up, crawling, and walking, which makes this comparison trap a particularly easy one to fall into.
“I remember sitting in music class, watching a 10-month-old demonstrate physical milestones that my 19-month-old was just getting around to. It was hard,” says Cianciolo.
As moms, we’re encouraged to watch for any development problems or delays and to get help right away with anything we notice. So it’s no wonder we’re constantly wondering what’s normal and what’s not.
Sidestep the trap: Research shows that as long as your child is reaching milestones within the normal range, how quickly he reaches them has no bearing on his later skills.
So if your 18-month-old says only one or two words compared to your same-age nephew’s dozen, it doesn’t mean your child won’t eventually gab your ears off.
“Milestone development has very little to do with a child’s future potential, so I encourage parents not to worry if their children are late bloomers or seem to be at the outer limits of normal,” says Darshak Sanghavi, a pediatrician who’s also an assistant professor at the University of Massachusetts Medical School and author of A Map of the Child: A Pediatrician’s Tour of the Body.
“It’s tempting to think that what a child does when he’s young is going to control his destiny, but everyday experiences don’t bear this out. We can’t determine a child’s destiny based on what month they started walking,” Sanghavi says.
Enjoying your child’s current skills and tricks can help ground you in the present and prevent you from fretting about the future.
“It’s hard to hear my 15-month-old niece saying more than my 2-year-old daughter. But it helps to focus on the special things my daughter does — like when we get ready to read, she gets the blanket and pillow and sets it all up, which really makes my heart melt,” says Kim Lybrand.
Finally, remind yourself that while we can certainly help our children learn new things, we can’t force them to reach milestones before they’re ready. When we attribute our kids’ development to our superior parenting skills, it can come back to bite us.
“When others noticed how well my son got around, I felt like we must have done something great to facilitate his excellent gross motor skills,” remembers Jennifer Parker. “But then I’d hear other children speak so clearly, while my son wasn’t yet talking at all, and I’d feel like such a bad mom.”
Sleep comparisons
Put two new parents together and the question is bound to come up: “Does he sleep through the night?” Unfortunately, the deck isn’t stacked fairly — some babies sleep like a dream, while others fight bedtime with every ounce of vigor in their little bodies.
It’s very difficult to handle this disparity gracefully. “When your baby isn’t sleeping, and your friend brags that her baby is sleeping through the night, you want to kill her, or at least maim her,” jokes Jenna McCarthy, author of The Parent Trip.
Sidestep the trap: Like milestones, sleep styles vary. What works for one child can bomb for another. “You might politely ask your friend how she gets her child to sleep, but this will only depress you further when you realize you’re doing the same things and they are not working,” says McCarthy.
Instead of dwelling on all the super sleepers out there, focus on finding a solution so that you can get some sleep. If your baby’s ready, you can try sleep training — either a cry-it-out or no-tears method.
If your baby’s too young for sleep training, you still have options. Ask a friend, relative, or babysitter to watch your baby so that you can take a nap, share middle-of-the-night feedings with your partner, or try these other strategies for sleep-deprived parents.
When the sleep comparison game starts, tune out or change the subject. And remember, this too shall pass.
Behavior comparisons
Our children may “belong” to us, but we don’t own their temperaments. Like eye color, many personality traits are inborn. Still, it’s hard not to shrink in shame when our kids tear hysterically around the library or refuse to meet new people.
For mom Amy Spizzo, taking her sons to restaurants triggered the negative comparisons. “Other children sat quietly in their highchairs, but my two boys behaved liked trapped raccoons. How could other kids be so content to scribble with crayons while mine were more intrigued by seeing how far they could throw theirs?” she says.
Sidestep the trap: For all you know, the calm, beribboned little girl at story time may have had a monster meltdown that very morning. “I’ve seen children who behave perfectly in public but throw huge fits in their own houses. So I just keep reminding myself that things are not always as they appear,” says Amy Oztan of the Selfish Mom blog.
Of course, you should use discipline or gentle correction when your child does something purposefully destructive, unpleasant, or dangerous. (Get discipline tips for your baby, toddler, preschooler, or big kid.)
But when it comes to your child’s personality, plain and simple acceptance is key. If you’re a social butterfly and your baby’s a shrinking violet, or if you love sports but your little one shies away from anything to do with a ball, you may have some stretching to do as you learn to understand and appreciate his particular individuality. Yet this is one of the best gifts you can give your child.
“I came to the realization that it wouldn’t benefit my daughter if I spent my time comparing her to other children. I want her to grow up with the self-confidence that she is unique,” says Shelley Hasenohrl.
Relationship comparisons
A new baby can be a huge strain on a relationship, and having a friend with a “perfect spouse” doesn’t make things any easier.
“Not once has my husband let me sleep in. Meanwhile, my girlfriend’s partner insists she sleep in on the weekends while he takes care of the baby, cleans the house, does the laundry, and then wakes her up with a delicious breakfast in bed. How frustrating is that?” says Beth Beauchemin.
Sidestep the trap: First, remember that unless you live with the other couple, you don’t know the whole story. They may be dealing with challenges that you’re completely unaware of.
Second, focus on appreciating what your partner does contribute.
“It took some self-reflection to realize that if I could forgive myself my imperfections compared to other moms, then I could extend the same consideration to my husband. Sure, some people have partners who clean the house and come home early — but they don’t have my husband and all his wonderful qualities,” Beauchemin says.
If your partner isn’t helping as much as you need him to, you certainly don’t have to just suck it up. But yelling, “Why can’t you be like her husband?” probably won’t help. For alternatives, check out our article on avoiding fights with your partner.
Homemaking comparisons
Your mommy friend’s house is clean, she makes her own baby food, and her clothes are never wrinkled. Meanwhile, your house is a wreck and you haven’t taken a shower in three days. “Why can’t I be like her?” you wonder.
Sidestep the trap: Negatively comparing yourself to a “super-mom” will only make you feel defeated and drained. Instead, spend some time focusing on your own parenting strengths when the green-eyed monster strikes. What are you most proud of?
This doesn’t mean that you can’t improve in certain areas, if that’s what you want. In that case, let your envy serve as a source of inspiration rather than bitterness.
“Learn from those moms,” says McCarthy. “Ask their advice and copy their smarter moves.” And who knows? You’re probably inspiring other parents in ways you don’t even know about.
37 Weeks! It’s Almost Over!!!!
Your baby weighs close to 2.8kg and may be about 48.6cm long from head to toe. Your baby’s head is now cradled in your pelvic cavity – surrounded and protected by your pelvic bones. This position clears some much-needed space for her growing legs and buttocks.
Many babies now have a full head of hair, with locks up to 3.5cm long. And then, of course, some babies don’t have any hair at all. Speaking of hair, most of the downy coat of lanugo that covered your baby from 26 weeks has disappeared, and so has most of the vernix caseosa, the protective whitish substance that also covered her. Your baby will swallow her lanugo and exterior coating, along with other secretions, and store them in her bowels. These will become her first poo, a blackish waste called meconium.
Around now many women start worrying about whether they will know if they are in labour. Look no further than our labour and birth section. There you’ll find advice on everything from creating the perfect environment for giving birth to tips for birth partners.
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